Honor the Children

Mark 9:36-37 He took a little child and had him stand among them. Taking him in his arms, he said to them, 37 “Whoever welcomes one of these little children in my name welcomes me; and whoever welcomes me does not welcome me but the one who sent me.”
 
THIS scripture is often used to underscore Jesus’ expansive love. Contrary to the culture of his time, the Son of God welcomed children. He loved and honored them with his touch and his affirming words.
   Jesus equates honoring the child with honoring him. This honor then transcends to the Father in heaven. When you honor the child, you honor the LORD God, who created the child. What does it mean to honor a child?
   To honor is to respect. This seems a bit backward to many. All children must learn, “Respect your elders.” But honor is essential to a God-centered family. Parents honor a child when they receive the child as God’s gift. They extend that honor with a determined commitment to raise the child in the gospel’s truth. Perhaps one of Scripture’s most common parenting passages is Proverbs 22:6 Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it. This fundamental principle does not promise a child will never stray. But honoring a child’s mind with God’s Word greatly enhances his opportunity for a godly life.
   Honoring a child with God’s word also requires you obey God’s commands. Teaching’s best method is to live as you speak. Know, teach and live the law with integrity. Honor the Father. Honor his children.
   You also honor a child when you spend time with him to do things he likes. You use these times to teach him some fun ways to use his time. Proper discipline, correcting his mistakes appropriately also honors him. Give a child responsibilities to help care for your home and younger siblings if appropriate. Honor his abilities.
   Honor is also about listening to what your children say. Honor their ideas with thoughtful discussion. Their frank observations can help you be a better parent.
   A father and mother honor their children when the children know you love each other. Children discern when mom and dad have relationship challenges. Work to resolve your issues with competent counseling if necessary. Honor each other with a desire to improve your marriage. Your children will notice.  
          To honor a child is not spoiling a child. On the contrary, you love him enough to properly affirm him and guide him to a Christian life. Honor the child. You will honor God.