A Father’s Appeal

Philemon 8-11 Therefore, although in Christ I could be bold and order you to do what you ought to do, 9 yet I appeal to you on the basis of love. I then, as Paul, an old man and now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus, 10 I appeal to you for my son Onesimus, who became my son while I was in chains. 11 Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.
 
WE remember that Paul is writing from a prison house in Rome to a man named Philemon. Philemon is a wealthy man who lives in Colosse. Paul has praised Philemon for his gracious, loving work for the church. He compliments Philemon on his kindness.
    Then Paul gets to the point of his letter. With the word “therefore”, he connects Philemon’s good work in the church to point Philemon to do good for his former slave Onesimus. Onesimus had run away from Philemon and stolen from his master. Paul urges Philemon to forgive Onesimus and receive again the one who has become useful both to you and to me.
    Note Paul’s language. He is a man of great authority in the church. As an old man and prisoner for Jesus Christ, Paul could have essentially ordered Philemon to forgive and restore Onesimus. But Paul appeals as a father to Philemon and as a father of Onesimus. He is hoping for a brotherly love in Christ between master and former slave.
    The apostle who did not have his own children, was certainly a spiritual father to many. He led them to Christ, then watched over them with a Christ-like heart. Loving one another under the Father’s love is the goal and essence of being Jesus’ church. Paul’s loving guidance included encouragement, rebuke, support and praise. He instructed churches through false teachings and disruptive members. Paul stood firm for the church as he faced persecution and severe physical trials. Paul learned of fatherhood from his Father in heaven. He lived it out in is ministry.
    These are good lessons for parents and grandparents, church leaders and church members. Recognize that as parents and Jesus’ disciples, you have authority in Jesus Christ. You are to use such authority – the Lord’s truth – with tenderness, love, encouragement and firmness. Know what’s right. Live in the right. Help others know, too.    
 
Life Thought: Leading for God requires our Father’s character.